grrrrrrrrrrrr so mad!!

hmmm this is a venting post sorry but I'm frustrated grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!

ok so this is why i was nervous of doing YouTube...stupid nasty comments!! now im probably being over sensitive but i have had nothing but nice comments and support from people on YouTube (big thanks) and today i log in and find a comment from a young girl telling me "you tan way too much" now come on i know i shouldn't take it to heart but heres why i do::::

*i wasn't wearing fake tan...that is my natural skin colouring...therefore isn't this a bit racist..after all she is commenting on my skin colour!

*the girl that said this is mixed race too so surely she should know how hurtful comments like that can be!1

I'm sorry but i guess it struck a chord with me as my dad was adopted for being mixed race as a child..harsh but true...i just wish people would engage their brain before saying stupid things!!
i don't mind constructive criticism but this is just mean!!

sorry guys i know I'm being super sensitive but its really made me question whether i want to continue doing vids, as i have zilch confidence and this dont make me feel much better..i take things to heart and i care what people think wayyyyyyyy too much !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

id never dream of commenting along the lines of woah your too pale or woah your too black...people should remember if you haven't got anything nice to say don't say it at all!!!

xxxxx

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  1. Dont let it get to you:( In my opinion nasty comments on youtube are from people not even worth your time or energy. Your vids are great and we all like them, dont let some moronic person stop you from doing something you like
    xx

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  2. Ignore them, you have gorgeous skin, I wish I had your colouring! Don't give up I've really enjoyed your videos so far!xxx

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  3. I agree with the above - we love your vids so don'y let one half wit spoil things. It's her problem not yours so don'y let other people's stupididty from stopping you doing something you love xxx

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  4. Take no notice, I would kill for your colour, I look like Casper. Look forward to watching more videos from you x

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  5. i think ive calmed down a bit now...sorry hehe..it just got me annoyed thanks tho guys xxx

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  6. i actually was like right im gunna try do my next vid in bright daylight next time..to look whiter...how sad then i realised why the hell should i!!! xx

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  7. :O dont worry sweetie , i said to my mom i loved to have your skin colour :).
    Its obvious your not wearing fake tan because your skin is all even and one tone aha :)

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  8. sorry to say but that's youtube. you have to get used to receiving the odd nasty comment. its never pleasant but my mantra is simply: "block and delete". and don't worry - you look fantastic. :)

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  9. Agree with all of the above comments, and we love you lots Tiffany, so just do like Laura (lollipop26) and block and delete! You're gorgeous and don't you forget it! x x x

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  10. thank you..i feel rather silly for ranting now..but you kno what its like when it first happens...lollipop..do you ever get any bad comments..surely not your sooo perfect its not fair!!!! also quick thing...does any1 kno wen blonde,brunette,red collection is out..in london tomo and i want!!!!!!!!!xx

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  11. Agreed. A girl always needs the good old rant from time to time so don't feel silly! Also it was a good point to raise.. why the nasty comments... surely no need. As lollipop says ... block and delete :)
    Plus.. i think your fab! 'Nuf said ;)
    xoxo

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  12. @tiffany - i get the odd comment. its either grossly sexual from some guy who typed in MAC into the search box and wanted the computers rather than the cosmetics - or from some supposed 14 year old. either way i read, i block and i delete. and thats the only way to deal with it. 90% of people on YT are nice and they are the ones that matter. The rest? Don't give it a second thought.

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  13. @lollipop26 - I know it's not really funny but the whole typing MAC in to google is kinda funny... but not them then leaving the comments... weiros!

    @tiffany - Honestly, I really have enjoyed the video you've done so far (as have many others!) so please don't stop :) One stupid comment by some kid shouldn't make you stop, keep it going and don't be discouraged at all. You have lots more confidence than most... (hey I'm waaaaaay too scared to do a video!!) so don't let anyone knock it!

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  14. awww tiffany! thats nasty!dont worry about it!you're lucky you're not pasty like me!shes probably just jealous

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  15. i just subscribed to you and am really looking forward to watching your videos. love you blog! :)
    and yes, ignore the idiots. (i know it's easier said than done, that's probably why I still haven't posted any videos yet.

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  16. I'm sorry to hear you got nasty comments. It always makes me sad to read those, because I truly appreciate what you girls do for us, you give a bit of your time to teach us things and then some jealous jerk has to ruin all the fun. The bad thing is, there is not much you can do and they will always be out there, just know that there are way more people who love you and your videos and are very thankful.

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  17. Please don't stop making videos! I've watched the ones you currently have and you have such a fun, bubbly personality. Like Laura said block & delte; esp when the comment comes from someone who can't spell the word "much"!

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  18. Please ignore the silly comments and DONT stop making videos!! I think anyone who does youtube videos are always going to get the odd nasty/silly comment so just try and let it go over your head. They are probably just jealous anyway!! Keep on going:)

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  19. Don't take it to hear, others peoples stupidity can just provide you with humour. You are beautiful xx

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  20. Hmmm...post me yours? I've got like every single privacy setting, so maybe that was why?! x x x x x x

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  21. You shouldn't have zilch confidence hun. You are great. The fact you are well spoken is very charming too.
    xx

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  22. Agh - how awful! It's so silly too, I would kill for skin like yours! I wouldn't worry, there are unfortunately a lot of morons in the world and some of them find their way to YouTube

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  23. What is your pic on fbook? I still can't find you :( x x x

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  24. Hi

    What is your name on you tube - would like to watch your videos? x

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  25. Her assuming you fake tan isn't racist, it's ignorance. It's only racist if she knew your ethnicity and then said 'I hate your colour' etc. But I would also be upset if I read that. I would never comment on someone else's appearance (unless it was complimentary!) It's up to the person what they choose to look like. So even though in this case your naturally blessed with lovely coloured skin, so what if someone faked tan til they were really dark, it's their prerogative! Just forget comments like that, I know it's prob hard, (cos if I ever hear anything bad it sticks with me for life!) and then keep making vids for all the people who are nice! x

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